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While not every adult using this journal system is part of the educational staff, I felt a few recent comments deserved looking over.

First, assume you came across a message with this basic content:

Mutants are scum. Every one of them. We don't need them, and the moment one steps out of line we have every right to visit physical violence and assault on them, and be applauded for it. After all, just because a few are bad, that's obviously reflective of the whole.

Most of you - being reasonably rational and intelligent people - would dismiss this as a raving lunatic racist, akin to your average Friends of Humanity protestor or internet troll.

But replace the term "Mutants" with "Humans". Imagine someone - let's say someone on this journal system - was espousing hatred and violence towards humans. After all, there's a lot of them out there who hate us, right? And they discriminate against us in ways both obvious and subtle. So that must mean it's okay to hate all of them, right?

Wrong.

It's wrong, and every single one of us with a functioning brain stem knows it.

Further distillation: replace the subject with, say, "Men".

Oh, then it becomes a valid complaint? Something to be ignored or waved off? No. It's bigotry and hatred all the same. There's a line between valid emotional venting and outright hate speech, and lately it's not only been crossed, but crossed in a manner akin to the Germany/Belgium border in 1914.

To the students: A lot of you have had direct interaction with jerks, and discrimination, and abuse, and hatred. But you haven't turned around and become that kind of hate-fueled monster yourself. That kind of self-control and enlightenment is to be commended. For whatever stumbling blocks you all might encounter as individuals, none of you have become the kind of reactive bigots that give humanity a reason to hate and fear mutants.

To Jennie: You, however, have achieved EPIC FAIL at common decency and rational thought. Maybe the common denominator in all your failed relationships is you.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-scorpion.livejournal.com
What if we gave you that carving knife yesterday? Like say, right after you found out?

Date: 2009-05-01 05:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
I already kicked him in the balls, dear.

Besides, you can nitpick my statement til the cows come home, but I had, what my therapist assures me, was a perfectly healthy, normal reaction to a bad shock. I was hurt, pissed off, and needed to vent.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-scorpion.livejournal.com
Now that's just stereotypical.

And the whole thing is why relationships are a waste of time in the first place. You're just going to get burned in the end.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
It's kinda cute how you're trying to get on me for unhealthy reactions.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-scorpion.livejournal.com
I know. I'm really just proving myself right. Women are incurably insane.

Either way, kicking a man in the balls is stereotypical. They expect that of us now. You couldn't have say, rammed his face into the bar?

Same sediment, new and improved reaction.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
Hindsight's 20/20, chickadee.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-scorpion.livejournal.com
Sure is. Of course, I dunno, I mean I'll pick fights with about anyone, but I think in the situation a guy I liked was sucking face with someone else I'd just walk away laughing.

...In fact, I have done that.

But hey. Not me. You. Your therapist is okay with you kicking ex-Boys in the nuts and I wasn't there. So all must be good.

I mean, it's not like he'll make that mistake again with you.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-forge.livejournal.com
No, I'm going to call total bullshit on this alleged "therapist" telling you that assault and battery is a perfectly healthy, normal reaction.

So yeah, lies.

Date: 2009-05-01 05:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
Forgie, sweetie. Come talk to me when you've removed your head from your sphincter, n'kay?

Date: 2009-05-01 09:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
Also,it appears I need to clarify since some people are suffering reading comprehension fail. My therapist, who is wonderful, did NOT condone the ball kicking. Venting and allowing myself to be angry, on the other hand. Was Good.

Date: 2009-05-01 06:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-icarus.livejournal.com
You kicked 'em in the balls? Y'all have any idea how much that hurts? I dunno, but just from where I'm standing, ball kickins is last thing I'd do, sorta the life and death stuff.

Date: 2009-05-01 06:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
Exactly, which is why I did it.

And for anyone else who wants to be all judgey at me, you might wanna think real hard about that whole "cast the first stone" stuff.

Date: 2009-05-01 10:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-icarus.livejournal.com
I ain't judging. I'm just pointin' out the fact that it hurts like hell and it ain't the first thing I would do if some guy was cheating on me. I'd prolly wanna drop my guitar over his head but I reckon a nice sticky drink would be just as good.

Date: 2009-05-01 10:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] x-roulette.livejournal.com
It wasn't like I walked up to him and kicked him. I was in the process of trying to get the hell out of dodge so I wouldn't have to see him suck face, and he would not relinquish possession of my arm. Despite my repeated insistence he do so.

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