Well, I was thinking about it as a general thing. I don't know what Amanda did or why, exactly -- she's said it's not my business. (I mean, not that she said that to me personally; I hadn't asked when she said it wasn't anybody's business who didn't know already.) But she's not the only one making choices in the scene, either. Jay did (I'd think), and the doctors afterward, and apparently you did at some point.
And... well, Doug made a choice a few months ago to plan on taking a bullet for me. He wound up getting yelled at a lot, not for wanting to help, but for how he did it. Obviously this isn't the same situation, but... well, the other side of the reasons mattering is that even with good reasons it's possible to make a bad choice.
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Date: 2005-02-21 10:11 am (UTC)And... well, Doug made a choice a few months ago to plan on taking a bullet for me. He wound up getting yelled at a lot, not for wanting to help, but for how he did it. Obviously this isn't the same situation, but... well, the other side of the reasons mattering is that even with good reasons it's possible to make a bad choice.